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High stakes

As fundraisers, we often feel under the gun and under a deadline to Make. Something. Happen. NOW! I thought our jobs were high stakes until I met Troy Smith. Troy Smith and Chris Voss used to be FBI hostage negotiators.  So, if you think talking to a donor is stressful, be glad it’s not an […]

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It’s not about you

“You will get all you want in life, if you help enough other people get what they want.”-Zig Ziglar The biggest mistake that I see among nonprofits is that they spend too much time talking about what they want, what they do, what they need. We train fundraisers to “strategize” for gifts that meet their

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WTF?

This weekend, I was in LA with my cousins.  We were celebrating the Lunar New Year with our own version of homemade dumplings and noodles.  We were thrilled to be in each other’s company, sharing jokes, running after giggling children and catching up. Meanwhile, 8 miles east, 11 people were killed at a celebration that

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East Coast vs. West Coast fundraising with Adam Michael and Marvin Vilma

In this episode, Adam Michael Royston and Marvin Vilma are back and they’re diving into the hot topic of East Coast vs. West Coast fundraising. These two fundraising experts have a wealth of experience between them, and they’re bringing their unique perspectives to the table to give listeners a deeper understanding of the differences and

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Power of habit

Happy 2023 friends.  I hope that your holiday break was joyful and restorative.  As for me, there’s always a Venn diagram between anticipation, general holiday anxiety, waiting for the holidays to be over and a sliver of actual enjoyment. I digress. I am, as I’m sure many of you are, thinking about goal setting for

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Push vs. pull

Dearest readers, This will be the last missive of the year and I wish you and yours a very happy, joyful and restful holiday break. It is well-deserved, amirite? I also want to thank you sincerely for welcoming me into your overstuffed inbox every week. It is an honor and privilege to share my thoughts

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Stop being a baby

Recently, I was on a mastermind call with a bunch of entrepreneurs and I was on the hotseat. I was venting/complaining/whining about the tedium of churning out content, answering the same kinds of questions and generally the tyranny of routine. Not only did I get zero sympathy, I got a metaphorical slap across the face.

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Stevie or Stella?

For those of you who have been readers for any length of time, you know that my beloved Stevie Wonderdog passed away in May.  After giving ourselves time to grieve, we welcomed ten-year-old Stella into our lives in October. Though they look alike, they could not be more different in temperament.  Stevie was spicy, Stella

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November 14th at 2pm EST

Major Gifts Strategies That Don’t Suck Webinar

This webinar will guide you through common constraints that limit the success of your major gift program.

 

I’ll show you how to realign your focus on what truly matters—building genuine, lasting relationships with your donors.