The Body Keeps the Score

I’ve been practicing yoga for over 20 years and I have one of the greatest and quirkiest yoga teachers ever.  If you’re ever in downtown Brooklyn, take a class with Paulo.  He’ll ask you to flower your anus to the ceiling.  I digress.

He also says in noticing your body that “Tightness means something muscular.  Holding means something emotional.”

There’s a growing body of work and forgotten ancient wisdom about the physical effects of stress and old trauma on our bodies.

Through my work with a somatic coach,Jen Chau Fontan, I’ve become increasingly aware of my physical reactions to external stimulation and my internal interpretation of it.

Surprise, surprise: my body is not just a fancy container for my brain.

I’ve noticed that I tend to lean forward because I’m in a rush to get to the next thing.

I’ve noticed that my shoulders tend to creep up towards my ears Nixon-like.

I’ve noticed that my breathing gets shallow and quick under pressure.

Noticing is the first step.  Breathing and releasing are next.

For now, my self-challenge is to open up and not scrunch down.  As the yogis say, open the chest and unsquinch my toes.

The lightness of being starts with the body.

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